That being said, don't despair and think that only the worst thing possible is going to happen. Personally, I've known quite a few couples that tried a separation and did not end up ending the marriage. Of course, I have also known just as many, if not more who did end up ending the marriage. So, while you do not want to enter into panic mode here, it is a time to take action if you want to make sure that you do not lose your wife.
Here is some useful advice on how to get your wife back if you are separated right now:
1. Do not try and force your wife to come back to you just yet.
Forcing someone to make a decision almost always ends up with them making a decision that you do not want them to. In this case, I think you know what that means. You want to make sure that anything that you do and say does not imply that you are trying to force her to come back to you. If anything, you want her to come back to you on what appears to be her terms. Of course, you can prod her along so that she DOES make the right decision, but on the surface, it has to look as if it is happening all on her terms.
2. Try and keep yourself busy doing things to improve your outlook and distract you from feeling panic about the situation.
If you just sit around and think about what this separation from your wife means or what the possible outcome might end up being, you are going to feel POWERLESS. However, if you take this time to keep yourself distracted in a POSITIVE way and improve your outlook on things and on life in general, then you will end up yielding good results from this no matter how it turns out. Most importantly, you have to keep yourself from going into PANIC mode about the separation and the potential end of your marriage.
3. She needs to fall in love with you again.
This really is the most potent way to get your wife back. It's the closest that you can come to a guarantee that she does come back to you. If you can find a way to make her fall in love with you again, then she probably is not going to want to get a divorce, right? So, how do you make her fall in love with you again? Well, you already did this before, so you should have some idea of what works and what she likes. From there, you just need to find out how to speed things up and escalate so that it happens rather quickly.
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