Instead of going over the psychology of why people cheat, this article highlights some of the ways that you can take their place, so that you can make informed decisions about your relationship. First, let's talk about some of the warning signs that you should watch out for:
Spending long days at the Office: your significant other can be truly extraordinary work, or they may be spending their time free extras with a new lover.
Spend too much time on the Computer: with the modern technology of today, the computer is a great place for cheaters to meet new lovers and even secretly communicate using e-mail and Messenger while you are sitting in the same room.
Receive text messages on their phone: anyone hip on technology receives text messages, but if they arrive late at night and are excessive, then you should be concerned.
Leave with new friends: If you have significant other has gained a new friend of the opposite sex and is spending an inordinate amount of time with them, then there is no reason for concern. This also applies to co-workers as the Office is an ideal location to start new relationships.
Noting only one of these signs does not mean that your significant other is having an affair, but you should look at the totality of the situation to take a decision on sound or less monitoring should occur. They are fighting a lot? Your significant other has a history of cheating? They have made threats that they will cheat? Any warning signs stand out? Can only be the judge!
If you suspect infidelity, then there are some simple surveillance techniques that you can use. Keep in mind that you should consult legal counsel before conducting surveillance so that you are aware of the legal issues which may be a factor.
Some devices that you can use the GPS tracking (to see where you guide), typing/screen capture software (to monitor the activities of the computer), hidden t.v.c.c. cameras (to see what is happening in your home when you went and tried and true mobile surveillance.
Once you've acquired proof of your significant other cheating, is it possible to confront the evidence is undeniable and save a lot of time and money it would cost to hire a private investigator.
Mr. Chesterfield is a former private investigator with several years experience in electronic surveillance which has included t.v.c.c. camera and burglar alarm systems. In addition, he has worked extensively in security management. More information on conducting investigations infidelity can be found at http://www.sadaffair.com/
